Lately, I've been thinking about the word Gentleman. The word makes me immediately think of Sam Davis Jr, Frank Sinatra, Nat King Cole, Cary Grant. I always want to be seen as a gentleman. You know, the smooth dude that everyone respects and looks up to. I don't only want to be seen as a gentleman but I want to be a gentleman. Feel me? First it is about being, then others will see you as you are.

According to Random House Dictionary,

Gentleman is: A civilized, educated, and well-mannered man.

But what does that mean in 2009?