Look In The Mirror
Steve Harvey wrote this book. I haven't read it, don't plan on reading it, but I caught a couple minutes of him on Oprah (I was channel surfing, LOL). So these two women had a long list of what they want in a man and wanted to get Steve's opinion on why they are still single. When I mean a long list, I'm talking like 100 or something qualities. Just a little ridiculous, don’t you think? Here’s my problem. Who’s going to want someone who is that uptight that they put together a long list of what they want in someone? I am all for lists. I have always believed making lists keep you on track with your goals, but the problem is when you get so crazy specific that you don’t leave any room for life to happen. Feel me? So, a female wants a man that is 6'5" and dark skinned. So what happens if a light-skinned 5'11" brother shows up? Gotta just live, ladies. Stop thinking you got it all figured out! John Lennon once said, "Life is what happens when you are busy making other plans.” I’m not an expert but I know for a fact that was mistake #1 for these women. Now, my real problem with these women… they knew what they wanted in a man but they weren’t looking in the mirror. Shoot for all the stars and hit the moon, I get it the concept, but let’s be honest. Opposites can attract, but don't kid yourself. This is for men and women; you got to be what the person you are trying to attract is looking for! You want a millionaire? Then you have to be the trophy wife! Want someone who is in shape? Then you got to be in shape, too! I think that’s why most people are single. They are looking for the perfect person when they are far from perfect themselves. To every unhappy single person out there… in the series of your failed relationships, what is one thing they all have in common? You!
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i hear dat
well let me say this, first of all women do need to calm down, take a chill pill. some women choose to be uptight for a whole lot of reasons that being a man of course wont understand, just like a woman wont understand a man. that's y sometimes opposties do attract. any way, we as women think that wanting a real man makes them feel whole. so they think that making a list of things that they want in man will come knocking at the door thinking that they are not suppose to have any flaws, being imperfect, and etc. we sometimes don't look at the BIG picture and that is either love the one u with or find yourself going thru several men throughout your life. good luck trying to find someone that is perfect. cause in fact theres no such thing.
Don't order it If you can't afford It
Quite often, I noticed women placing orders on A Mr. Olympia type of brother, a brother with a perfect tape,..but once you get him - can you afford,..the material that would keep him in shape ? Lets say that you like to cook soul food,..Fried foods are against most diets,..So how would you feel the day, - that he pushes the dish away,..then gets up and leave, - because he refuses to try it ? Then again you'll return,..ordering a perfect man,...but there's nothing or anyone perfect in your home,..then when he arrives and step a foot in,...once again,..you're still all alone. SO ,..Why not go to GOD,..and seek his will,...so He can finish working until He gets through,...then when you get your man,..you'll then understand,...out of your forty something years of existence,...God still wasn't finished working on you.....I am glad that I am,..this imperfect being,..but still I am a unique man,..Can you imagine how I would be, - If only you had the power to change me,...there would still be one set of foot-prints in the sand...........And they would be your by yourself,..because If I was perfect,.." Why would I want to be with You........Jerry Parker,..